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Full for Women (14)
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This has improved a bit with
the changing of the gender ratio to better match the membership percentage. The Volunteer Committee is constantly balancing the active
volunteers with the needs of the community when determining the number of volunteer events.
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Lack of Time/Schedule Conflicts
(45)
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Job (18)
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Too Shy/Social Anxiety (3)
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The Volunteer Events are
usually the best way to combat this!
Try FoodLink, or other larger events.
The Meet and Greets can also help.
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Events Unappealing (8)
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The Volunteer Committee will
take your ideas and try to further diversify the events. Please e-mail Cathy with events that would
appeal to you.
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Illness (3)
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Distance (6)
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We try not to limit location,
but need to be pragmatic about it. Our events are purposely focused around the population
center of the region, namely the Rochester area. This
ensures that our events will fill up and we can effectively serve the
non-profits of this area. Events
that are too far away from Rochester
tend not to fill up.
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Shortage of Males (1)
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Want to Give Others a Turn (1)
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We appreciate those who do
this. We would rather not restrict
anybody. Hopefully having more events
will help.
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Winter Weather (1)
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Dating Status (2)
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Hopefully many more people will
have this "problem!"
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Lack of or Bad Response From
Event Leader (2)
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We are offering
"refresher" courses for Event Leaders and are trying to improve the quality of effort put forth by some
existing Event Leaders. Continue to fill out the feedback
forms!
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Cliques (1)
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This is somewhat natural as
people get to know each other. We will
continue to remind people to be open and
reach out to new members.
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Times / Days of Events (7)
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Event times are often dictated
by the charitable organizations, but we will try to find events at other days
and times.
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Location in Bad Neighborhoods
(2)
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Not on Bus Lines (2)
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Want Events Differentiated By
Age (1)
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Volunteer Events are open to
people of all ages. We have no plans
to restrict events to any one age group.
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Other Volunteer Commitments (3)
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We’re glad that our members
also help charitable organizations out directly!
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1 Male and 1 Female At 2-Person
Table (1)
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Good idea. We’ll pass that along to our Event Leaders
to use, when practical.
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Sojourner House (1)
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Mix-Up Nights Some (1)
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Limit the Number that People
Can Sign-up For (1)
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Some people are voluntarily
doing this. We would rather not
restrict anybody. Hopefully having
more events will help.
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More Saturday/Sunday Evenings
(1)
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Christian Events (1)
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More Regular Events (1)
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Meals on Wheels (2)
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Great Variety (6)
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Minimum Volunteer Requirements
(1)
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We are considering
the possibility of instituting this.
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More in Southeast
Rochester/Canandaigua (2)
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In
order to ensure that we don't come up short on volunteers for events, we
focus our efforts that are close to the Rochester metro area.
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Animals (Lollipop Farm, Humane
Soc., Zoo) (1)
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Pare Down Requirements For
Events (1)
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We feel comfortable that the
current requirements are effective in keeping the events fun and with
sufficient opportunities to meet others.
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Children’s Hospitals (1)
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Pair-Up New Volunteers With
Experienced Ones (1)
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Good idea. We’ll pass that
along to our Event Leaders to use, when practical.
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Mary Cariola
Centers (1)
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Soup Kitchens (1)
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More Variety in Events (1)
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The Volunteer Committee is
always working on this.
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Environmental Clean-up/Activism
(1)
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Clean-up is a good idea, but we
want to avoid any political "hot potatoes," and will not do activism.
Members are free to do that on their own, or with activist groups of their own choosing.
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Mental Health Community (1)
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Age-Specific Events (1)
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Official SVR Social Events are open to
all ages. We do not want to hold events that segregate the membership, and believe that you can make friends
of all ages. Members are free to form their own age-specific social gatherings via the Message Board.
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Visiting Nurse (1)
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Special Olympics (1)
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More Interested Volunteering
(4)
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Nervous/Shy/Fearful (7)
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The Meet and Greets are great
ice-breakers, and we will consider some of the ideas below to improve
welcoming new members. We will try to
remind veteran members to be more open and approach new members, but it needs
to be a two-way street!
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Job (5)
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Event Full (1)
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This doesn't happen too
frequently with Social Events, which can typically involve greater numbers.
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Schedule Conflicts/Too Busy
(37)
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Started Dating Someone (1)
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Need to Know Age
Ranges (1)
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All of our events are open to
all ages, and we have been seeing a pretty good mix at the Social Events we
have attended. Only some of the events
posted on the Message Board are for 50-somethings. We welcome people of other age groups to
coordinate social gatherings via the Message Board.
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Not Interested in Event
Types/More Variety (7)
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Our Social Committee has been soliciting ideas and looking for people to help
set up a more diverse range of events.
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Not Many People In My Age
Range (2)
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Help us by actively recruiting
people in your age range!
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People are Unfriendly (2)
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The vast majority of SVR people
we have met are very friendly. There
are a few that aren't, and we all have our bad days. Don't dismiss the 500+ people in the group based on one event and a
few people. Give it another
try. Remember, it's a two-way
street.
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Illness (1)
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Short Notice (1)
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Appears to be a Clique/Not Made
to Feel Welcome (3)
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There really are no cliques,
but people naturally gravitate to people they already know. We will try to remind people to welcome
everyone, but new members need to take the initiative too.
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Haven’t Volunteered So Not
Right to Attend Social Events (2)
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That's
an excellent attitude, but still it would be nice to have you come to one of
our Meet-and-Greet events to help you “get started!”
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Too Many Rules On Behavior (1)
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The rules are there to protect
our members. People that act civilized
don’t have to worry about the rules. You'll find an organization that has over 500 members in
it must operate differently than one that has only 20 people.
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Boring Events (1)
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That's
unfortunate. Have you offered to help
the Social Committee? We'd like your help in generating new ideas!
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Event Start Time (2)
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Don’t Like Events That Focus On
Alcohol (2)
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While we have had some wine tours, we
try not to have many events that focus on alcohol. Also, please do not confuse the unofficial
social gatherings you see posted on the Message Board with those being
run by the SVR Social Committee. Some
of the official Social Events will have alcohol present, but not focus on
alcohol. Some won’t have any alcohol
present.
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Location (3)
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We try to spread events around
the greater Rochester area.
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More Casual Events (1)
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We have had picnics, cabin parties, and meet & greets - they've all been casual events.
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Events that Promote Interaction
(2)
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We try to do this whenever
possible, but there are also events that are just plain fun, which are good
too!
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Game/Card Parties (4)
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These have been very successful
and we will continue to hold them!
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Wine Trip (2)
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Age-Specific Events (1)
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SVR official events are open to
all ages. We do not want to hold
events that segregate the membership, and believe that you can make friends
of all ages. Members are free to form
their own age-specific social gatherings via the Message Board.
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Weekend Trip (1)
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More Events (4)
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The Social Committee is working
hard! They'd
love your help.
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Outdoor Events (1)
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More Meet & Greets (1)
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We don’t want to overdo these,
as they are lots of work to organize, but we’ll have as many as we can.
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Volleyball (1)
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Picnic At Letchworth (1)
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Had one this past summer.
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Avoid Cliques/Make People Feel Welcome (3)
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We want to avoid cliques, but
people naturally gravitate to people they already know, especially if you
become friends. However, we generally
do not see these groups of friends shutting out people. We will continue
reminding people to welcome everyone.
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Sunday Afternoon Social
(1)
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Message Board Posts Too Many
for 50 + Crowd (1)
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Come up with events for your
age group and post them!
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Less Alcohol Events (2)
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While we have had some wine tours, we try not to have many events that focus on alcohol.
Also, please do not confuse the unofficial social gatherings you
see posted on the Message Board with those being run by the SVR Social
Committee. Some of the official Social
Events will have alcohol present, but many won’t.
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Good Variety (1)
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Some Social Events have a
higher cost, but we try to have many low or no-cost events too.
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Toga Party (1)
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Live Theatre (1)
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Fewer Events - Emphasize
Volunteering (1)
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This is why we have the 6:1
ratio. We want to create a good
balance.
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Hockey Games (1)
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Sporting Events (1)
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Super Bowl Parties (1)
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Location (1)
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Camping (1)
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Dancing (3)
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Friendly People at the Meet and
Greets (1)
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Golf Scramble (1)
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“Buddy System” For New Members
at Meet/Greet (1)
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Good suggestion. We’ll try to
promote this.
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Joint Events With Other Singles
Organizations (1)
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Another good suggestion that
we’ll explore, as long as we can ensure the event
or other organization doesn't stray too far from SVR's core values.
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Day Trips (1)
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Movies at the Dryden or Little
(4)
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There's been some unofficial events at the Little Theater once or twice a month.
Watch the Message Board for details.
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Events Where You Do Something
(1)
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Concerts (1)
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Comix
Cafe (1)
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Toronto
(1)
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Balance Between Service and
Social Activities (4)
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The 6:1 ratio.
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Nice People of Good Character
(8)
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Well Run Organization and
Events (10)
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Thanks! We're always trying to improve.
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Get to Meet People While
Helping the Community (31)
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The Weekly E-mail
Updates/Communication (1)
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Thanks to Alan and Teresa.
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Effort to have Equal # of Men
and Women (1)
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Fun (2)
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Non-Threatening, Low-Pressure
Environment (4)
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Meet People w/Similar Interests
and Values (4)
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Variety of Activities (11)
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Help Many Non-Profit
Organizations (2)
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No Cost (2)
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Focused Managers (5)
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Social Events (5)
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User-Friendly Website (1)
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Diversity in Age and Background
of People (4)
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Always Recruiting New Members
(1)
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Felt Very Welcome, Friendly
People (11)
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Ability to Pick and
Choose/Flexibility (5)
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Support Charities (18)
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Networking Opportunities (3)
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An interesting benefit that is
often overlooked.
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Better Organization (1)
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No Man/Women Ratio (2)
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Men
have a tendency to sign up much later than the women do. Thus, doing away with a target ratio could
drive out men altogether. The ratio is
another tried-and-true principle followed by the other chapters of Single
Volunteers, so we don’t think doing away with it is a wise course to follow.
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Better Event Leader Response
(1)
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Event Leader training refresher
courses and improving the quality of some Event
Leaders are our way of working toward improving this. If you have
any problems with the quality of Event Leaders, please give us feedback through
the Feedback Form on the website.
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Don't Drop "Inactive" Members
(1)
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They stay in the database and
it is really easy to re-join if you become active again.
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Discouraged at Full Events (1)
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The Volunteer Committee is constantly balancing the active
volunteers with the needs of the community when determining the number of volunteer events.
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Add Feedback Spaces on Event
Sign-up Forms and Feedback Forms For Questions (1)
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Each
event signup form has the email address of the Event Leader, in clickable
form, so that you can contact her/him directly with questions.
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Event Leader Refresher Course
(1)
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We’re doing this.
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More Volunteer Events/More
Varied (4)
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The Volunteer Events Committee is constantly
taking suggestions from members and investigating possibilities for new types
of events. However, not all volunteer
activities are suited to SVR or meet our guidelines. If an event is not appropriate for SVR, or
we are approached at the last minute, some times it is put on the Message
Board so individuals can contact the non-profit agency directly.
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Need More Men (4)
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Spread
the word about the fact the group is 70 percent women, and you'll get more
men.
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Less Politics/Power Issues (3)
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Working
together in a team environment can be difficult and challenging, but the end
result can be better than just "going it alone". In any team arrangement, there will be
disagreements, but as long as the group handles disagreements in a respectful
and professional manner, consensus can be reached.
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Don’t Limit Number of Social
Events (1)
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This is a volunteer
organization. Not limiting the number
of Social Events would turn this into a social club, which it is not.
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Area on Website to Submit Ideas
For Groups With Volunteer Needs (1)
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This has always been on the
website – please look again.
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More Weekend Events (2)
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Publicity of the Organization –
Info Courses? (1)
|
We have had an ad in the Info
Courses catalog but did not get much response.
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More Events Without Having To
Advertise For Men – Demeaning To Women (1)
|
This should not be demeaning to
women. It simply means that we need
more male members, and the men should be quicker to sign up for events than
they have been.
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Bend the Rules for People That
Are Dating (2)
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First,
there is a difference between dating someone and being in a committed
relationship. People have asked for a
clarification on the topic on many occasions.
While we leave the definition of what constitutes a "committed
relationship" to each individual, it essentially means that you are not
open to the idea of dating someone else.
We feel strongly that in SVR, an environment where members do not have
to worry whether the other people they meet are "available" or not
is very important to what the group stands for. This is why we have firm guidelines
concerning those that are in committed relationships.
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More Event Leader Training
Sessions (1)
|
We offer them when we have
enough people who have expressed interest.
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Prefer Old Weekly E-mail Format
w/Events Listed (1)
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We want people to be going to
the web page. The weekly e-mail is a
reminder to do that, not
a substitute for it.
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Introduce Management at Meet
and Greets (1)
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We have, at every one.
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"One Time Help"
Program (1)
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Need more information about
this.
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Better Communication – Explain
Things a Few Times a Year
|
We have "Meet the Manager" sessions that are held several times a year.
Some basics can also be answered by the FAQ page, or are addressed in the "Tips of the Week" in the weekly newsletter from Alan.
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Avoid Events That Require
Showing Up Early, Only to Sit Around (1)
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We agree and are working to
avoid this. Unfortunately,
some of the people that work at the non-profits don't know of SVR's
reputation for having volunteers there on time, and in the quantities they
requested.
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Managers Have Limited Terms and
Hold Elections (1)
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When we incorporate, we will
have annual elections. However, we see
no reason to limit terms. If people
are willing and have the talents and time, let them continue. The survey response clearly shows that the membership is satisfied in general with the current group
of managers.
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Telephone Sign-ups For Events
(2)
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This is impossible with such a large database. No other chapter
does this, although one tried long ago when they were much smaller. They learned quickly how impossible it
was. We have no plans to ever do this.
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More Mingling of Current
Members with New Members at Meet and Greets (2)
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We will continue to promote this.
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Have a Meet and Greet at a
Local Bar (1)
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This is not practical as there
is no way to prevent non-members from co-mingling. There are safety concerns as well.
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Less Cliques (1)
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Better Leadership (1)
|
The survey results show that the grand majority of the membership
thinks that the leadership is fine.
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Deal With People Who Spread
Rumors (1)
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We have dealt with people that start rumors when we've been able to identify these folks.
However, the entire organization needs to be involved and make an effort to not listen to
rumors, and to ask those that perpetuate them to stop.
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State Reasons For Management
Decisions (1)
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We try to do this, but don’t
want to send constant e-mails about every decision. If you have questions about an action –
ask. We'll also continue to have sessions of "Meet the Managers".
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Be More Social to Older Members
(1)
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Better Cheerleading to
Encourage Members (1)
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Will try to do this more.
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Improve the Sign-up List (1)
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Don’t exactly see what’s
wrong. Having our own web site in the
future will help avoid some problems.
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Faster Response Time From Event
Leaders (1)
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We are trying to improve the
performance some of our Event Leaders in many dimensions.
If you do not hear back from the Event Leader within 48 hours
of signing up for an event, e-mail them or one of the managers.
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Enlarging Some Events To
Include All Who Sign-up (1)
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The charities often limit the
numbers and we don’t want to increase the limits, only to have people stand
around with nothing to do.
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More Younger People (1)
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Spread the word and recruit
some!
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More Detailed Description For
Events (1)
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If there is not enough info, please e-mail Cathy, the Volunteer Event Committee Chairperson.
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Attract Members Dedicated to
SVR Mission (1)
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YES!
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Continue Teaching of Message
Board Etiquette (1)
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We have
posted some guidelines. Unfortunately,
some people haven't caught on that 200+ people don't really want to read
about someone else's daily activities.
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Help More Minority
Organizations (1)
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Get Own Website (1)
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We will focus on this once we
incorporate and have some income sources to pay for it. It’s a big undertaking to get it started!
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Deal With Issues in a More
Timely Manner (1)
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We’ll do the best we can.
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What Is It?/Don’t Know How To
Use (4)
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We're glad we made some new
people aware of it.
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Notice of Impromptu Get-togethers
Being Deleted (1)
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Messages were only deleted if
they contained inappropriate or harassing language, promoted events that
could be harmful to the reputation of SVR, or were intended to give a voice
to members who had been kicked out or suspended from the Message Board. SVR is a private organization. We don't want to exclude people or censor
opinions, but potential members and non-profit organizations read the Message
Board, so we must be wary of what is posted.
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Too Much Personal Stuff (2)
|
Will try to tell people to
minimize this, but that’s really one of the main functions of a Message Board.
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Like Moderating/Screening/Guidelines
(8)
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We will continue to moderate.
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Too Many "Let’s
Party" Postings (1)
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Are Posted Socials Interfering
With People Volunteering? (1)
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Yes, somewhat. We are watching this. If people are posting social gatherings
that attract people and Volunteer Events are not filling up as a result, we
may need to take action.
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Seems To Be Restricted (1)
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The Message Board is restricted
by Microsoft to people that are members of the MSN site, in order to avoid
SPAM. If you are having difficulty in
signing up to use the Message Board, contact Teresa or Alan.
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Good For Finding Out What’s Up
(8)
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Too Much Negative Stuff/Dirty
Laundry (8)
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Unfortunately we've been forced
to begin moderating it to reduce postings from those that would rather
complain and rant than to try helping SVR meet its objectives. Some people have decided to put their
personal agendas before those of SVR.
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Can’t Use At Work (1)
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Hopefully a new website will
fix that issue. Your company is
filtering out MSN Groups.
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Some People Tend to Dominate –
Afraid to Post (1)
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Message Groups By Age (1)
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Not practical and not desired.
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Informative and Up To Date (1)
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Not User-Friendly (1)
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Will hopefully have a more
user-friendly version when we have our own website.
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Like Weekly E-mails (3)
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Thanks to Alan.
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Stop Censorship/Rules (3)
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Moderating and rules are needed
to keep inappropriate or harassing messages off the board. Remember, charities and potential members
see that board as well, and we do not want to turn them off with
inappropriate postings. Some people
need to think twice before posting their messages.
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Good/Great Job! (18)
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Improved Lots Over Past 12
Months (1)
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Improved Communication is Good
(1)
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Be Flexible With Other People’s
Points of Views (1)
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We feel that we are, but we
still have to make decisions that some people just will not like.
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I Respect the Recent Letter of
Explanation (2)
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More Committee Members to Help
(1)
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Remember, all committee members, including
the managers, are volunteers, and any members are welcome to volunteer to help on a committee.
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Manager Should Be Thanked, Not
Criticized (1)
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Keep Going Through All the
Rumors (4)
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Appreciate the SVR Rules (1)
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Don’t Limit Social Events (1)
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This is a volunteer
organization. Not limiting the number
of Social Events would turn this into a social club, which it is not.
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Some Managers May Be Dating –
Apply Rules Uniformly (1)
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The rules state
that you should not attend Volunteer Events if you are in a committed
relationship. They have not. Managers who are dating do attend some Social
Events in a managerial capacity. We
see nothing wrong with keeping managers who are dating. In fact, we do not think that this
organization could run if managers had to drop out every time they started
dating. See the response under the section called "What Areas of SVR Could Be Improved?", where the comment was
"Bend the Rules for People That Are Dating."
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Hear Discontent Over
Censoring/Control Over Message Board (1)
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The only people who should have
a problem with this are the ones who are having their inappropriate or
harassing messages taken off the board. Some people
need to ask themselves "Do over 200 other people and a bunch of
non-profit organizations need to read this?" before posting their
message.
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Thanks for All Your Time and
Efforts (5)
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Do You Follow What Other
Chapters Are Doing? (1)
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We do. In fact, we contact other managers
periodically to ask them questions about how they handle certain situations.
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Heard About Some of the
Problems – Be Nicer (1)
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We are nice to those who are
nice. Those who harass or bully others
will be dealt with accordingly.
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Managers Should Be Elected With
Terms Of Office Limited (1)
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When we incorporate, we will
have annual elections. However, we see
no reason to limit terms. If people
are willing and have the talents and time, let them continue. The survey response clearly shows that the
current managers are doing well.
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Policy Changes Should be
Approved By General Membership (1)
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The managers will continue to
make policy changes, with input from the general membership.
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System of Handling Complaints
and Follow-up Action is Creating Resentment and Alienation Among Formerly
Active and Devoted Members (1)
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It seems that this is only true
with the people who have been the center of the complaints and others to whom
they pass on inaccurate information.
If they are truly devoted members, then they would try to understand
and support the difficult decisions that the managers were forced to make.
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Keep Personal Conflicts To
Themselves. Don’t Wreck Group With
Power Plays (1)
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There are no power plays. Working together
in a team environment can be difficult and challenging, but the end result
can be better than just "going it alone". In any team arrangement, there will be
disagreements, but as long as the group handles disagreements in a respectful
and professional manner, consensus can be reached.
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Why Were Members' Profiles
Removed? (1)
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Two
issues here - one is that we used to have a photo section, but unfortunately, some people
that signed up to join our MSN Group never participated in events, but did
make an effort to post a whole bunch of personal photos. We figured that they must have confused us with an
online dating service. We're not. The other issue - we also have a "profile page,"
and some of the valid profiles were inadvertently lost when we had to do some
housecleaning to remove the more than 200 people from the MSN website that
weren't actually in our membership database.
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Don’t Know Who They Are (1)
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Come to the Meet and Greets!
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Organized, Consistent, and Have
Priorities Straight That SVR is About Volunteering, Not Social Events (2)
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Stop Terminating Members Based
on Rumors and Without Being Given a Chance to Speak (1)
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Only one member has been
terminated, which was done based on consistent reports from several members. He did speak with the managers prior to the
termination.
This issue was addressed in the Special Message of 12/09/2003.
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Listen to Input and Criticism
(1)
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We do listen, but that doesn’t
mean that we should change things because of it. We have over 500
members with at least that many opinions.
We need to consider what is best for SVR as a whole.
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Be More Sociable (1)
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Sorry
- some of us put up to 20 hours a week into this group on occasion, and at
times that tends to make it into another job.
We'll try to be warmer.
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Inspire Us to be More Active,
Don’t Chide Us (1)
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We'll
try to do better.
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Too Much Control and Rules (1)
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Again,
this is a group with over 500 members, all with different values and
sensitivities.
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Too Many Power Struggles and
Ego Trips (1)
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There are no power struggles or
ego trips amongst the managers. We may have
disagreements on occasion, but we have treated each other with respect, and
do our best to reach a consensus on issues.
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Like the “Meet the Managers”
Evenings (1)
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We will be having more!
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